haiz... 我的哥哥真挑食,可是过后他还是吃了。以前年轻时还会想在外面吃东吃西,可是现在下班回家看到家里煮的饭菜心里就很温暖和满足了。虽然有时还会在外和朋友吃,可是爸妈已经很明白我偶尔也要去庆生和party!!!! Haha... Of course, There are times I really didn't want them to cook my dinner, 因为我想减肥嘛!可是想想他们如果只煮三人份也蛮可怜的,难怪每次翔翔来他们都大鱼大肉。
This afternoon received a heart breaking news from a close sec friend, nini. I saw her sms, thinking that she's mass messaging us to share her joy, happy news of her 2nd baby boy come rolling into this world. Instead of sharing her happiness, i choked on the sms, throat tightening, nothing can i say to make her feel any better...
She delivered her baby boy. But even before that, the dear baby boy heart already stop beating...
I can't imagine that to happen to any of the mummy in the world...这世间难道就不能只拥有幸福,欢笑和喜悦吗?
For the past 20++ years, my parents usually went ahead with 清明. But last year, my mum asked me if I want to tag along. I thought why not? Good to know what the my parents and uncles are doing for 清明. not all my cousin are there, and I'm probably the only 3rd gen there with my 堂哥. I think it's good to chit chat stay in contact with the relatives. As we hardly gather together after ah ma passed away.
I stared into the rain and all sort of things came running through my mind. i never get to know my ah gong, I only know he smokes a lot and mum has a faded black n white picture of ah gong's side view looking very skinny. But I guess ah gong just look like my dad, but slimmer. Cos looking around my uncles all looks the same, small eyes big nose, tall with a tummy. Except my dad, he got slightly more ah ma's genes -> chubby. Heeee