For the past 20++ years, my parents usually went ahead with 清明. But last year, my mum asked me if I want to tag along. I thought why not? Good to know what the my parents and uncles are doing for 清明. not all my cousin are there, and I'm probably the only 3rd gen there with my 堂哥. I think it's good to chit chat stay in contact with the relatives. As we hardly gather together after ah ma passed away.
I stared into the rain and all sort of things came running through my mind. i never get to know my ah gong, I only know he smokes a lot and mum has a faded black n white picture of ah gong's side view looking very skinny. But I guess ah gong just look like my dad, but slimmer. Cos looking around my uncles all looks the same, small eyes big nose, tall with a tummy. Except my dad, he got slightly more ah ma's genes -> chubby. Heeee
